{"id":467,"date":"2017-10-30T20:24:43","date_gmt":"2017-10-30T20:24:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/copilarie.org\/?p=467"},"modified":"2017-10-30T20:24:43","modified_gmt":"2017-10-30T20:24:43","slug":"copilul-calm-ascultator-nu-l-ignoraaa-da-mereu-atentie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/copilarie.org\/index.php\/2017\/10\/30\/copilul-calm-ascultator-nu-l-ignoraaa-da-mereu-atentie\/","title":{"rendered":"Copilul calm, ascult\u0103tor\u2026. nu-l ignoraaa!!! D\u0103-i mereu aten\u021bie!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-468\" src=\"https:\/\/copilarie.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/copilul_calm-linistit.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"721\" srcset=\"https:\/\/copilarie.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/copilul_calm-linistit.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/copilarie.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/copilul_calm-linistit-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/copilarie.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/copilul_calm-linistit-768x461.jpg 768w, https:\/\/copilarie.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/copilul_calm-linistit-1024x615.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/copilarie.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/copilul_calm-linistit-600x361.jpg 600w, https:\/\/copilarie.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/copilul_calm-linistit-696x418.jpg 696w, https:\/\/copilarie.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/copilul_calm-linistit-1068x642.jpg 1068w, https:\/\/copilarie.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/copilul_calm-linistit-699x420.jpg 699w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/>Nu de pu\u021bine ori te-au surprins reac\u021biile \u0219i tr\u0103irile copilului t\u0103u. Uimirea e amplificat\u0103 de modul cum el rela\u021bioneaz\u0103 cu mediul. Atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eel vezi inexpresiv, crezi c\u0103 este dezinteresat de un anumit lucru \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 c\u00e2te o replic\u0103 care te pune pe ganduri\u2026 realizezi, cu uimire, c\u0103 ai un copil mult mai profund \u00een g\u00e2ndire \u0219i stai \u0219i te \u00eentrebi cum ai putea s\u0103 \u00ee\u00ee vii \u00een \u00eent\u00e2mpinare. Ei\u2026 se pare c\u0103 ai un copil cu temperament flegmatic.<\/p>\n<p>Provocarea intervine atunci c\u00e2nd tu, p\u0103rinte sau bunic, e\u0219ti coleric sau sangvin\u2026 Te treze\u0219ti tras de m\u00e2nec\u0103 \u0219i adesea oprit din ra\u021bionamente sau activit\u0103\u021bi, minunate situa\u021bii comice\u2026 A\u0219a \u00een\u021belegi \u0219i tu s\u0103 te opre\u0219ti sau s\u0103 te reinventezi, datorit\u0103 copilului t\u0103u. S-ar putea s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac\u0103 chiar mai mult dec\u00e2t \u00ee\u021bi po\u021bi imagina. \u00ce\u021bi va aduce stabilitate!<\/p>\n<p>E un copil imperturbabil \u0219i calm, cu o fire r\u0103bd\u0103toare. Dac\u0103 \u00eel \u00eentrebi cum se simte, \u00ee\u021bi va r\u0103spunde \u201dbine\u201d. A\u0219a, tati sau mami, define\u0219te binele dac\u0103 te-ai gr\u0103bit \u0219i nu ai avut r\u0103bdare s\u0103 ajungi la el din aproape \u00een aproape. \u0218i dac\u0103 imediat dup\u0103 \u201dbine\u201d mai \u00eentrebi \u0219i ce ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat azi la gr\u0103dini\u021b\u0103 sau la \u0219coal\u0103, po\u021bi auzi invariabil un \u201dnimic\u201d sau \u201dnu mare lucru\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Ca bebelu\u0219 e lini\u0219tit, iar la v\u00e2rsta de unu- trei ani va fi ascult\u0103tor. Nu are neap\u0103rat nevoie de activit\u0103\u021bi diverse \u0219i stimulare, \u00ee\u0219i va tr\u0103i via\u021ba profund \u0219i lini\u0219tit.<\/p>\n<p>Caut\u0103 s\u0103 ai c\u00e2t mai multe moment de conectare cu el, comunic\u00e2nd direct. A\u0219a \u00eei vei descoperi intensitatea tr\u0103irilor l\u0103untrice \u0219i \u00eei vei gusta din plin umorul. \u00cel are. Ai observat?<\/p>\n<p>Atunci c\u00e2nd un copil e calm \u0219i ascult\u0103tor ai tendin\u021ba de a-l ignora \u0219i de a acorda mai mult\u0103 aten\u021bie lucrurilor curente, de zi cu zi. Aici gre\u0219e\u0219ti: D\u0103-i mereu aten\u021bie!!! Realizeaz\u0103 activit\u0103\u021bi s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nale cu el \u0219i arat\u0103-i c\u0103 e\u0219ti interesat de lucrurile \u0219i tr\u0103irile din via\u021ba lui. Aranja\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103 un loc \u00een cas\u0103 \u00een care el s\u0103 se simt\u0103 lini\u0219tit, chiar d\u0103-i de \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 \u00eei respec\u021bi intimitatea \u0219i c\u0103 vei fi acolo, \u00een afar\u0103, pentru atunci c\u00e2nd el se hot\u0103r\u0103\u0219te s\u0103 ias\u0103. Copilul t\u0103u absoarbe lent informa\u021biile din jur \u0219i are nevoie de timp de g\u00e2ndire.<\/p>\n<p>De\u0219i are o via\u021b\u0103 l\u0103untric\u0103 intens\u0103 reu\u0219e\u0219te cu succes s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i p\u0103streze echilibrul interior.<\/p>\n<p>Culoarea copilului cu temperament flegmatic este verdele iar elemental s\u0103u este apa.<\/p>\n<p>Poate ai observat c\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne calm chiar \u0219i \u00een momentele dificile. Atunci c\u00e2nd ceilal\u021bi copii \u021bip\u0103 alarma\u021bi c\u0103 au sc\u0103pat un p\u0103ianjen \u00eentre juc\u0103rii, pe el \u00eel vei auzi spun\u00e2nd: \u201dCopii, copii nu v\u0103 panica\u021bi! S\u0103 ne p\u0103str\u0103m calmul!!!\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Not\u0103: Etapa de bebelu\u0219 este etapa flegmatic\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nu de pu\u021bine ori te-au surprins reac\u021biile \u0219i tr\u0103irile copilului t\u0103u. Uimirea e amplificat\u0103 de modul cum el rela\u021bioneaz\u0103 cu mediul. 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